Reshaping means to change the shape of something. It also means that you have to destroy the existing one, and establish a new one. That does not come easily it takes hardwork, rigorous and sometime violent approach to distablise what has been existing for a good number of years. You need an idea in establishing a new shape; that idea must be contructive to enable you to construct a shape, that will arrange you for a better position. Reshape yourself by reshaping your thoughts.