Parent need to educate theirselves on jet age movement, to help guilde them on 21st century time. For u to be a good communicator to your children u need to equip urselves with knowledge of the time. Some time your child may do something jet age that is not bad and u will conclude that what he or she did was not good because, u don’t have or u lack knowledge in that regard. But firstly u need to be a morally good father or mother by giving ur life to christ then after which, u will be acquiring the word of God because is the most important, so as to help you equip ur child morally. Also the word of God will teach you that u need to talk to ur child good words that will build the destiny of ur child. Don’t ever curse your child, parent.